I have lots of questions about your wiring. Hard to figure it out. and missing items (wires)
Need to discuss one item at a time to best NOT confuse things.
Let's break it down item by item.
40A bus bar kit.
Using your image. Post are in this order. 1 (top), 2, 3, 4 (bottom), Post are NOT connected to each other so each must be FED.
- Plug the 2 pin connector into the blue connector.
- Post 1 - MAIN POWER from the large OEM supplied red wire, ensure this is connected inside the battery box. Hook red wire from the 40a relay here also.
- POST 2 - Orange wire goes to post #3, can also jump to post #2 using a jumper. Now both post 2 and 3 are new 40a key-on power post.
- Post 4 will be a ground post. Connect the OEM supplied large guage black wire to this post.
ISOLATOR kit.. (not discussing voltmeter)
- Isolator MAIN post: needs main battery power so connect it to post 1 of the bus bar.
- Isolator AUX post: needs to go to the second battery positive.
- Isolator little black wire: needs a true ground. Use post 4 if you like or a screw on your fuse box negative side.
- ALSO... to complete this circuit, the second battery needs to be GROUNDED. You will run a wire from the second battery ground to post #4.
FUSE Box. (40 amp limit).
- Positive goes to post 3
- Ground goes to the second battery or post #4 will work also.
That should have you set.