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The yellow is what needs to be lifted.
Once lifted, the pins will pull out.
For pins that you cant pull, you will need to push them.
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To get the terminals, out of the connector. You need a extraction tool, go in the opening that (Honda has hi lighted) the tool is cut on a angle, put the sharp end down against the terminal, go to the left or right of the opening, put slight downward pressure on the terminal, while pushing in on the wire. You have to get under the plastic clip in the connector, and lift it up, as you’re lifting it up try to pull the wire out.(it’s all about feel) sometimes you can feel it moving out. The plastic clip is not that far in.
Be careful not too, make the mistake that I did, and cut off the part of the terminal that the plastic clip holds onto.
Yellow wire in pictures compared to the blue wire.
Lucky I bought more terminals. The ones in the picture. And the crimping tool.