In a word, no. Unless you fab a wire harness headlight plug adapter you will not achieve your goal. I suggest getting the Honda wire harness adapter for the accessory plug under the hood and then just using a simple switch if your lights draw less than 15 amps. The accesory wires only get power when the key is on, so that helps prevent forgetting and leaving them on. Most LED's of reasonable size will be fine as far as current draw, even a 12" light bar is often under 15 amps. Just get a switch at the auto parts store or Rural king that can handle the max amperage that the lights will draw.
