Rocky Mountain will sell a complete filter kit with Tusk filters and oil (high quality no doubt) or OEM oil and/or OEM filters separately, if one prefers the Honda filters, which are of the highest quality. It is hard to know the quality of Amazon filters--why chance it? Rocky Mountain has very good pricing, ships fast, and if the total is over about $75, ships free.
Honda also has extremely high quality oils, including oil designed specifically for Honda motorcycles/SXS's with wet clutches. Moly is great, except for on clutches. Just can't go wrong with using Honda's non-moly oil. Sure, there are plenty of great oils out there, but again, why chance it? Team Honda absolutely does use the exact same Honda oil, and has won a lot of long, tough races in Baja with it.
Not sure if the washers for these 3 drain plugs qualify as "crush" washers, but they do not really crush when properly torqued. If re-used, best practice is probably to install them in the same direction as they were removed. The engine case side, which always seems to come off nice and smooth and lubricated goes back against the engine case, and the bolt side goes back against the bolt.