OK, I am back in business!!
I want to talk about my experience. I want to start by thanking Neohio and Snuffnwhisky for the leads on connectors. Unfortunately corsa-technic.com and connectorexperts.com could not find the IACV connector. I went to all my local parts stores looking for the connector or even the pins for me to repair my own connector. No luck. I then called my Honda dealer and that is when it started looking up. RG Motorsports service Manager Mark in Bridgeport WV is the best!! He informed me that Honda does have a pin replacement kit for the injectors, but nothing for IACV (idle air control valve). He contacted his Honda tech support who stated they are working on pin replacement kits for IACV, but no time frame yet. The Tech told him he had a wiring harness the was being inspected and if it had the connector, he would send it to me. I just got the "used" connector installed today. I still had the trouble code until I unhooked the main battery for about an hour. Now all is clear!!!
I did purchase the "heat shrink/solider" butt connector that Honda provides for its injector pin replacement kits. They work great.